unveiling the sperm donor

old? yes. almost 17 years!!

I always thought this was a funny wedding picture, with the minister behind us and my eyes glowing like the devil's.

my very best work

Christmas was great, despite the unexpected car repairs that ate up the budget.

I had an enlightened moment as we were rolling down the road with the wheel ready to flip off at any second... Christmas will no longer be about gifts and how much we spend on each other.

Every year at this time, for the last 3 years, something major happens that breaks the bank. This year it was the car. Last year it was bank charges from hubby and I doing too much shopping at the same time. The year before I was trying to keep our home out of foreclosure (almost unsuccessfully). Somehow, I still always managed to spend too much of what we don't have. I spent the day feeling guilty knowing that I was neglecting some important responsibilty to buy my kids toys. And not enjoying the guilt at all. It stood in the way of enjoyment.

I want to go back to basics. Make it a time to spend with friends and family; enjoy good food and great conversation and maybe even some good drink. I've been moving this way over the last several years, but this year sealed it for me.

Despite that bank busting repair, and a lot less than usual under the tree, the kids ran around all Christmas Day saying that it was the best Christmas ever. And I didn't have to play referee once!

That's all I need.

big stinkin' giraffe

:o)